There are always consequences for each of our actions/choices...good and bad.

My thoughts are we all have free will to make good/bad choices/actions in our lives.

So...the question is who do you think of when your making them. Do you only think of yourself? Because each choice/action affects not only you/me...but those who are closest to us. This may be a difficult subject for some more than others. I have always been an observer of people around me..even at a young age. Therefore, I think I know quite a bit about the affect the choices/actions have on those that are closest to me.

The first circumstance that comes to mind is having to walk away from a relationship with a dear friend in High School. We spent almost every waking hour together. We were more like sisters. I loved her family. Just like they were my family. But...she was making choices that were affecting us both. I loved her very much and still to this day think of her often.

I had a wonderful ! Mentor in my life that pointed out what was happening. She was someone I trusted and knew she only wanted the "BEST" for me. She sat me down and said..."you see what is going on, right." I did...but didn't want to lose a friend.

Sometimes, we have to lose to gain.
Remember, all your choices affect others!
❤Kel

When I grow up.....or it seems the Journey is on going.

Growing up is a part of life..but I think for some it is a life long process. Each of us has our own specific Journey. I know I do. I know we have to take the good with the bad. We are all responsible for our choices and the consequences that come with them. I am thankful for the place I am at... and the future ahead. I have been thinking about all of this for awhile. So I thought I'd put it out there.

This was from a status I posted in March or April:

Ok....friends...Poll time. I am working on making some changes in life...As well as working on my BLOG....2 questions I have (please be honest)..:)....
1. What should I be when I grow up?__________
2. When I think of Kel Bird the one word that comes to mind is____________. Thanks for playing.

These are the answers that were given to the two questions:

A dancer and a very sweet person.
A therapist or Teacher/Honest
Therapist/kind
You should be a missionary ....or a social worker...caring :)
Teacher/Loving ♥
Teacher of therapists/ Supercalifragilisticexpialadocious :D love you!!
who needs to grow up/spunky
A crisis councilor/ loyal
princess... sexkitten (its totally one word)


I think it is funny to read what certain people think one word describes you. Some can use one word and others give an explanation. I love my Friends dearly and to see what they say makes me smile.

I think we are all on a journey of some kind. For some it may be spiritual, understanding themselves and finding their purpose in life. I know there may be many that have another reason for their journey.
We are all at different points on our journeys. Hopefully you are at peace with where you are. I know for me there are times I am. Then there are many times I am not and know something needs to change.

Hope this makes you think about your Journey.
Kel<3

questions to be answered

Just a few ??? that swirl around in my head Often.

Why am I here?
What Is my Purpose?
Where is my Fairy Tale?
When will I grow up?
Why does it hurt so much to Love something or someone you can't have?
What can I do to make a change?
Where is the Love?
When will my time come?
Why does Life seem fair for others and not sooo much for others?
Why is it there are times I feel I give my all and then it seems as if it was not enough?