My thoughts are we all have free will to make good/bad choices/actions in our lives.
So...the question is who do you think of when your making them. Do you only think of yourself? Because each choice/action affects not only you/me...but those who are closest to us. This may be a difficult subject for some more than others. I have always been an observer of people around me..even at a young age. Therefore, I think I know quite a bit about the affect the choices/actions have on those that are closest to me.
The first circumstance that comes to mind is having to walk away from a relationship with a dear friend in High School. We spent almost every waking hour together. We were more like sisters. I loved her family. Just like they were my family. But...she was making choices that were affecting us both. I loved her very much and still to this day think of her often.
I had a wonderful ! Mentor in my life that pointed out what was happening. She was someone I trusted and knew she only wanted the "BEST" for me. She sat me down and said..."you see what is going on, right." I did...but didn't want to lose a friend.
Sometimes, we have to lose to gain.
Remember, all your choices affect others!
❤Kel
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